I'll be honest. I've been struggling lately to practice what I preach. There has been significant upheaval in my family and home, and it has been overwhelming my ability to cope.
I can't tell you how annoying it is to have collected all this knowledge about creating joy and connection -- and to know that it's possible under any circumstance -- and yet be unable/unwilling to put it into practice.
In the back of my mind, I keep finding myself thinking, Something's wrong. I have to fix it! This makes me anxious and keeps me from seeing clearly and acting wisely. And it's not even true.
The reality is, I can't fix it. Because the "it" is Life itself, including things that have already happened, and things beyond my control.
In the big picture sense, there is nothing wrong with Life. It just contains a lot of things I don't like and don't understand.
Stepping back like this eases the anxiety. It gives me space to remember who I am and see more clearly what I might do to create more joy and connection right now.
It also reminds me how much I love talking to people about life, and how much I've missed teaching and facilitating these past few months.
I look forward to getting back into that soon, but in the meantime, I am available for 1:1 conversations, and would love to talk to you. See details on Pepperlane.
I wish you love and happiness, no matter what your life is like right now!